Seldom Seen Way

{February 3, 2014}   Random thought.

I just finished a post and all of a sudden it hits me.

Being in any type of relationship, requires “work” on both parties. 

Think of the “work” you put into it as a way to grow and learn about each other. 

Now, how about we change the word “work” to INVEST in your relationship. 

The first and most important area you want to focus on is EFFORT. Don’t always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. 

You can also up your investment by investing TIME into your relationship. Time, in this instance, means that you both  frequently do things that not necessarily both of you want to do. Sometimes there are things that another will forgo because of their Partner doesn’t like it. How fair is that? Why give up certain things that make you happy just because of another person? Find a way or suck it up and do something out of your element.

Share your passions–but not all of them. Though it’s important to have shared interests with your loved one, it is  just as important to have your own interests.Both of you absolutely need it in order to maintain your own interests, as well as to realize how grateful you are when that loved one is around. 

And I can’t say it enough – Communication is key. If something is bothering you, it’s important to let your partner know so you can tackle the problem together.

Don’t let the small things build up. If you want to avoid having big serious talks all the time, remember that if something small ticks you off, you can tell your them without making a big deal about it. 

Lastly, Even if your love is rock solid, your loved one should not be taken for granted. Remind yourself how lucky you are to have found your soul mate, but that it’ll take hard work to make the relationship thrive.

I know I have found my best friend, soul mate, other Half and am grateful every day that I have with Him. 


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