Seldom Seen Way

{April 29, 2014}   After 5 years together. W/we are more in Love than before:

We have cultivated a few common interests.

We both love kink, are gamers, love to read and love to talk… to each other about all topics.

Walk hand in hand and/or side by side

We have trust and respect for each Other. 

Focus more on what your partner does right than what they do wrong. You can always find things wrong with people – hell you can also find something right. It all depends on what to look for. Accentuate the positives.

Kiss/Hug each other as soon as we see each other especially when I go to see Him before coffee or just general running around.

Say “I love you” and/or “Good morning” when we get up even if it is via a social media.

Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel.

Do a “weather” check during the day. Syn always calls me at work to see how my day is going.

Be proud to be seen with Each Other.

We try to make plenty of time for each other. We stay in close touch with what’s going on in each other’s life by communicating openly on a regular basis. Taking that time for each other not because it’s convenient, but because we know it is worth the extra effort.

We don’t beat around the bush. No matter how sure you are of someone’s love, it’s always nice to be reminded of it.  If you appreciate someone today, tell them.  If you adore someone today, show them. There might not be a tomorrow. 

We meet in the middle and work together. Compromise is not a bad thing – however don’t always be the one giving or the one taking. That’s what our relationship is all about – teamwork.  It really is a full circle. The most important trip a person will ever take in life is meeting their partner half way. 

Actions often speak much louder than words. It’s not so much about how much you do for each other as it is about the love you put into what you do for them.  We Learn what matters most to each other and make a habit of it.

We respect each other’s humanness. All humans are imperfect.   We make mistakes, we lose our tempers, and we get caught off guard.  We stumble, we slip, and we spin out of control sometimes. But that’s the worst of it; we all have our moments.  And think about it – most of the time we are awesome.  We need to stand beside the people we love through their trying times of imperfection, and offer ourselves the same courtesy; if you aren’t willing to, we don’t deserve to be around for the perfect moments either.  

There is far more between us than physical attraction. Sure His beard is fucking magnificent, with gorgeous eyes I get lost in however His personality and wit is Charming. He keeps me on my toes and makes me smile and or laugh every day.

We open up to each other, especially in trying times. Letting Him know I am in a dark place and Open up to Him completely. It is scary I know, however I am not expecting Him to solve my problems; however I do allow Him to face my problems with me. 

We are committed to growing together. It’s not about finding someone to lose yourself in, it’s about meeting someone to find yourself in.  We both grow into our best selves by spending time together and nurturing each other’s growth. No matter what, we are there for one another, growing and learning as one.

We Share Embarrassing moments with Each O/other – You know the ones – that OMFG how could I do that in front of ANYONE – let alone you moments.


Big one for us:  Non-Communication is a Hard limit in O/our relationship.

We talk about Everything and Anything – to name a few:

Talking about the future with Each Other. we discuss O/our dreams, goals, and aspirations.

Childhood memories make for fun conversations, but they can also lend insight into how we became the person we are today.

Past relationships. There is a difference between longing for (or being bitter over) the past and simply acknowledging what happened.

Family life I have learned a lot about His upbringing and relationship with His parents.  

Current events/Politics/Religion. We never shy away from these topics and sometimes we just might learn something from each other’s point of views.

TV and movies. He likes Horror and B Movies, I prefer comedies and dramas. we both enjoy a great documentary.


And to think 5 years later we are a better couple than when we started. We love to spend time with each other and just be ourselves. There is no hiding who/what we are – We accept each other and that makes me happy to see what the future has for us.

We are always learning more and growing as a person and as a couple.

I couldn’t ask for a better Best Friend than Syn to continue on our Path of Life together.

I love You Sir. 



lucidsyn says:

If I could EVER articulate it half as well as you just did my little fae, I would be a happy man. I love you more than I did yesterday, and not half as much as I will tomorrow, thank you for this absolutely beautiful post. ❤

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