Seldom Seen Way

{September 16, 2014}   A couple of paragraphs I admire at the moment – will be a post hopefully this week

W/we have a friend that is going through a couple of Journeys that would for most people make them want to quit Life. I admire Him for the way He is carrying Himself… yes sometimes I want to throttle Him, however I know it isn’t Him that is causing the grief – it is His body fighting with Him all the time. His mind is a bag of cats – that is how He describes it… He is dealing with Mental issues along with detox/addictions.

He wants to be Better. He is working to get Better.


That is the brief background I will give on this Individual. Today – He posted on a forum W/we all belong to concerning male submissives. His entire piece was written with much thought and knowing. There were two paragraphs though that stood out for me:

All in all, as the pool of potential partners in a local community dwindles, embracing yourself, and taking the time to understand yourself BEFORE getting too far too fast with relationships is the only way some of us can be true to both ourselves and a potential partner(s).


I’m glad several people suggested I slow down. Being a Top requires a lot of practice in many skill areas. It can take someone years to gain all the skills needed. Rushing into things and trying to be what you’re not ready for is how people get hurt.


Many people get into such a “frenzy” at times that they forget there are others that they need to think of for their needs. The young ones (D and s-types) are especially the ones to watch out for – it is that generation of instant gratification. They are young and have no skills yet think they know everything or at least pretend so their egos don’t bruise too much.


This week I am hoping to follow up on this post. I really needed to get this out of the brain while I am at work.


I think Dom/me frenzy is just as much as a problem as is sub frenzy – however we never hear about it – or at least in my opinion.



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