Seldom Seen Way

{October 22, 2014}   You can be frustrated… however take care where and how you do it:

There is a page I “liked” on Facebook that was BDSM related and was there to help educate. The owner of the Page has a few of them on the same theme.

The rants this page owner does –  refers more to his numbers or lack of views, comments and likes  – for a year it has been going on and the Re-incarnations of his Page(s). He states it isn’t for those reasons however when you keep talking numbers – it is that reason.  If it wasn’t for the counts – you would not mention them EVERY SINGLE TIME – with actual numbers broke down for all us to read.

Part of the Rant (and as it is part of a Public Page on Facebook – I can quote from it)

“WTF is that all about? I know Facebook now owns your feed, and it is full of adverts and paid pages. But you do ALL go into your Facebooks daily so why can’t you at least make a point of coming to visit me once a day or so!!!!!…..Either that or just unlike the page. I really do not want fake ‘friends’, and to be honest, for me it is an embarrassment to have so many followers with so few who actually get engaged….it honestly feels fake. I am not in this for the ‘like count’……if I was, you’d be inundated with shares and I’d wipe the floor with every other page around. I am in this to make it a learning experience for all those who are really interested in this lifestyle. And that is all. I know that sounds too charitable to be true but it is how it is.

So if you just want kinky pics, there are hundreds of other so called bdsm pages around…..go like them instead; they are better at posting that type of meaningless pic than me. But if you want to be here and learn, BE HERE, please!!!!! “

This rant took the straw – I will not as a viewer of the page be referred to as a Fake. I answer the questions if I am able – however half the time I glance and keep going because it seems all I am doing is repeating myself. It is a waste of my time in my opinion.

As for the meme’s … honestly – could really care less for them – I have porn for that. I am not clicking “like” to have it show up on my own feed if it is not something I really like – It is that simple.

It is my choice – as it was my choice yesterday to unclick the Like button. Several more rants that I will not have to be a part of.

As I was telling Sir – Treating the people that read that rant as children… making the viewer feel guilty to a point where you need to explain why they don’t click like or comment is emotional blackmail. People have lives beyond Facebook – or at least I hope they do.

I was offended by the behavior of the Individual and what he says he stands up for – yet time after time his words have said different. When you are frustrated you need to realize this is the time you should take care with your words the most, especially dealing with people of different cultures, personalities, personal traumas, and emotional/mental states. It is your responsibility to ensure you are following your own advice.

Many will be offended. Many will be dealing with that type of blackmail already… And for someone that is against that type of behavior they sure deal it out well.

He needs to realize that.

It was very irresponsible of him as a page owner to rant that way on a public forum that supposedly is there for educational purposes.

That is the reason I clicked unlike. I do NOT need that in my Life … from just a page on the Internet.

I will continue to be in the closed group – however the thread is going to be cut if the behavior bleeds into it.


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