Seldom Seen Way

{February 23, 2015}   Pet peeve before I really start my day

What the fuck people… I hate “following” as a response to a FB post – more so for one that is on J O U R N A L I N G.

Honestly?? Really?? You need to put following on the post?

I am sorry – being catty – however – it doesn’t take much to realize what/how/when/why you journal.

Some of the follow up questions make me cringe – because you think you need someone to validate your every thought OR you need someone to answer your question that is a *** simple *** answer.

Example: (so it doesn’t seem like I am off my rocker)

Please note – people do not answer questions/answer them to further the conversation

Before my post there were 5 posts (including 2 from the same person and the poster) – basically they answered by stating yes – I journal, another posting it was a hard limit for their sub (WTF???) and someone that answered like myself.


Journaling – an easy way to get things off your mind and ease stress. It is a great form of communication to yourself… and/or a Partner. I recommend it to both s types and D types. Everyone needs an outlet – and this can work wonders.
I have been journ
aling either by a paper journal or in the last 10+ years via blogging. I started using Livejournal – which I still have and currently use WordPress.
A task I have is to journal at least once a week – it doesn’t need to be kink related or a specific topic. However if I do write something I love/hate or wish to talk to Him about it is never used against me. There is no punishment if I write say as an example – I hate when He bites me – I wish He would stop that.
You shouldn’t be punishing someone for their personal thoughts. I do think though it can be used more as a talking point. Some people find it hard to start a conversation – this may be a way to help.
I love the fact that I can read His thoughts – especially in the beginning of our relationship as He was unsure at times and felt slightly off to discuss with a s type let alone the Partner.
I find it allows more conversation, deep thoughts, and expressed emotions that we may never thought of at the time.
It also comes in part to the one Hard Limit that we both agree on – Lack of Communication. Once that starts breaking down – we have a bigger problem(s) to deal

The next post after mine:

Do you think this could be effectively used to introduce a partner to what you want? I find it painfully difficult to speak earnestly to my husband about what I want.

and next post: FOLLOWING

3 more posts – answered by the poster and one of his subs – giving the yeah – it is okay…



and other post with really just yeah I post for my Sir with no context…


REALLY??? Seriously??? This is one of those self explained type thing or so I thought. Still figuring out the hard limit one a day later.

Google Journaling. Did you own a diary growing up? Think outside the box people. Please.

Anyway – this is a post BEFORE coffee is in my system – I can be pretty much in disbelief and ornery,

Off to finish my waking up and deal with the day rituals…

Positive – Sir is not working today – woohoo

Negative – He works tomorrow. 😉


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