Seldom Seen Way

{February 26, 2015}   I am 43 years young today…

and to celebrate this week –  I have been purging my bedroom/closets… as I have had things in there since my 30’s and haven’t let go.

I keep carrying the stuff from move to move.

It has been weighing me down and I need to get rid of it.

I know it is just stuff… however each thing has something connecting itself to me.

I didn’t think I would pause and hesitate bagging up my ex-husband’s clothes – even though I know we haven’t been together for years.. or the fact they won’t ever fit him again.

I folded them and put them in the bag – now I am sitting here writing for a breather.

I was a dress whore in my earlier years… I had purged some last summer… I finally got the last ones out today.

I stood in my living room naked, trying clothes on….looking in a mirror if they fit… decide if I was going to ever wear again. The too small or too big ones were easy to bag up.

After I even kept a few dress shirts… I revisited… and bagged they went.

In the end anything that was hanging – I only kept – my soccer jersey from school, my soccer coaching jersey from working at the School, 2 dresses and 2 sweaters. That for me is a big accomplishment.

I still have boxes/bags of stuff lining the closet – perhaps I will find things I couldn’t find … or perhaps more to the bags to purge.

Time to continue with this quest – because that is how I am getting through this – I am wondering what the achievement will be called when it is completed?


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