Seldom Seen Way

{March 3, 2015}   It is a Tuesday.

First off before I start – I am a sad girl 😦 Our Wpg Family’s kitty Jabba – passed away this morning. I am going to miss him alot. He was a happy huge kitty with a little purr and a big loving heart. No more snuggles when we sleep over 😦

Dates and Times are important to me – not as much as when I was younger however they still hold a special place in my head.

It isn’t what you are all thinking… Birthdays, Anniversaries, etc… more along the line of scheduling your Life around other people. People I want in my Life and want to make it work.

I use Fetlife for my Kinky Calendar – it makes sense no? You can find the events near you, click accept or maybe to put on your “calendar”… that is IF it gets posted. I am the type that needs a visual – and this works for me. Telling me that oh yeah – it is every 4 weeks and not post it till 2-5 days prior means nothing to me. By that time I have already planned something else, or I don’t have time to re-arrange my Life due to work/$$ for gas or said event to attend.

As I am typing this now – I am dealing with something else on another socal media- and it to deals with Dates/times and groups.

Where was I going on this? Oh yeah – Life at times does need to have schedules – many enjoy spontaneity… not me – unless it is in a scene – I don’t want to know what is going to happen.

Right now I only have 3 events on my calendar – BUT I at least know I have 3 events on my calendar and not have to do the guessing game if someone wants or not do something. I can work with this. It is with people that do not use a calendar that I cannot … and then wonder why no one goes to things… CAUSE THEY DIDN’T KNOW… REAL LIFE GETS IN THE WAY… PEOPLE TEND TO FORGET IF NOT TOLD/REMINDED.

Obviously I had something bring this subject up – it comes up every month actually – I just don’t share it – however it came to a head today… which relates to my side note below:

Side note:  For the group that we are in for our local community – it needs a change. It is time to re-vamp it. Other people saw this long time ago – and the way they showed it – was to eventually not going anymore. It is now just making that impact to a Leader in it. I have been waiting for the realization that everything needs to change with the Times… what you were thinking the excuses were – are not. That is the other conversation I am having. I hoped to see change sooner but this is better than never.

I am sure I will continue this saga in future posts.

Now I am going to make myself another coffee, eat the fish I made for breakfast, wash the dishes and change the cat litter before I get ready for work.
Laters A/all.


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