Seldom Seen Way

{March 10, 2015}   I have to make a decision.

And for me, I have never made one like this before.

This is not something I wanted to ever have to decide.

Bandit “Old Man” as he is fondly called is not doing that well. I see that he is getting worse, slower, sleeping more, having more troubles than I wish to see. Darwin is staying with him more and more during the day.

He is very restless today… moving room to room… stopping into his Human’s room… laying on the pillow beds she made him with her scent. The one by the window, the one in the closet and just sitting in the corner where his comfort chair was. She brought it downstairs for him so he wouldn’t have to climb.

You know he is losing too much weight, when he is able to get in and out of the cat tree hole that he barely used to get his head and shoulders into.

I am very sad… we have had him for 3 years… yet it feels like he has been with us since he was a baby. He is 18 years old – we fostered him at the age of 15… and got him from an old family friend who could not keep him once she moved to a personal care home. She didn’t have the heart to put him to sleep as he was still a happy cat… just no home.

I messaged my youngest as she is his Human. She needs to visit him before the weekend.

For K’s sweet 16 – she got a cat of her own who attacked her the first time, and never left her side from that point on. He marked her as His.

I type this all with tears… I know what the decision is… 532949_10152763153870472_2137333399_n 1025654_10152984821250472_395266786_o 1175492_10153132313255472_1160052636_n 431293_3244901763493_1972589187_n


It’s never easy to make these type of decisions =( sucks they have much shorter lifespan than ours.

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