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{June 8, 2015}   BDSM And My Structure

Time and time again, I have stressed structure in all of my relationships – vanilla or kinky. You need to know what is expected of yourself, and the ones that you love. The consistency is not as hard as people make it – if you are willing to put the work into… it just becomes your nature to just do.

Vile has explained it very well in this post. This is how our relationship works, and it is seamless. It just is.

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Structure no matter the lifestyle is needed , be it vanilla , Daddy Dom , Baby girl , Dominant and submissive , or Master and Slave , and last Domestic Discipline. Structure insures the home is ran smoothly and consistent. Structure insures the family or Master and Slave are on the same page.
Along with Structure comes come rules. Rules are needed to provide structure.
Even when the slave is out rules are followed and they are meant to give the slave a sense of direction. Rules are meant to provide a sense of direction under any circumstances.
A Slave or submissive is a direct reflection of their Dominant or Master. The Training is a direct reflection of the Dominant or Master and while out at a local event be it a Munch or a MAsT meeting or anything that is BDSM related the way your property acts comes back…

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