Seldom Seen Way

{September 15, 2016}   Hiding.

No. Not what you think.

Not me.

Nor Sir.

From experience,  when someone goes that little extra step on a social media such as Fetlife, you know they are hiding something.

It is one thing to have them contact you after a bit and inform you both…because their therapist said to do it…remove us as friends on social media…and she did.

It is a whole other level to block you both a week later on one social media and not the other. There was no reason, no contact (as per her – yet it was fine for her to do so…on her terms), and our loves of pictures, writings or events we were attending didn’t show up on her feed anyway as we were not friends anymore.

It was quite ignorant actually. She is hiding … Yet she can’t hide as well as she thought. Not that trustworthy…and proving it more and more. She is known to say one thing, and do something else if anything actally happens. Basically what I call excuses or back pedaling.

Early today…to take back some control…I decided to block her from the other social media. I am tired of having the relationship that is not supposed to exist…still be manipulated.

I know she still reads this blog. It is hard to block a public forum…unless I choose to do so. I said fuck it…this is my space. I will write what I want.

So with saying that…she won’t know what events we will be going to unless she asks someone. She will have to rely on someone to do that for her. And guess what…if she wishes to avoid us…good luck. We don’t always RSVP to events anymore. As long as they are on my planner, we are good to go.

It appears to be getting late…my brain is slowly getting quieter. I think I needed this post to help with that.



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