Seldom Seen Way

{February 1, 2017}   Some Thoughts on Feminism…

“A feminist is a person who believes in the political, economic and social equality of the sexes. This is someone who will stand up when facing a misanthrope as much as when facing a misogynist. Speaking of misanthropy, that is the fancy word for hatred of men. Sometimes they wrongly self-label as feminists.”

Why does ‘feminist’ translate to ‘hate men’?!?!

Feminist is about wanting equality. It is sad when i see many people that yell from the mountain top that they are are a Feminist equates to becoming very Narcissistic. I find they make it all about them.

A good Master is an attentive Master. i still don’t understand why feminism and BDSM apparently cannot go together for some people.

i am a feminist.

Being submissive with Sir does not equal submissive in everything else in my Life, well at least not for me. The perceived loss of power is an imagined one.

i also wonder if it all just the thought that involves the man vs. woman power struggle. i am not only attracted to and engage with males; i have a love for humans in general no matter what you identify as.

When you do find someone whose desires match yours and you can work out what kinds of things you want to explore together – it becomes beautiful, scary and exciting all at the same time.

In saying all that,  i -choose- to give up my desire for ‘equality’ in a traditional sense, to -one- man, and serve Him as a slave so that He is my balance point by being the Dominant one in the relationship. Which becomes equality. For me.

He helps show me my true strengths, my true power as a woman and as a human being. In a very real sense, my submission helps me to become truly emancipated, to become a truly free person.

Furthermore, i don’t want anyone telling me how i am and/or not supposed to be a feminist or as a woman. We need to respect women’s rights to express themselves sexually, even if we find their choices troubling or do not understand their dynamic with their Partner. We should not judge them or try to protect them as if we are their concerned parents.

Ultimately feminists shouldn’t be afraid to enjoy sex in whichever form it comes in.



Xtac says:

Ooooo good stuff. You are on a roll! This is why I place “equity” above “equality”. We are always equal.. or should be. In fact, until equality is so ingrained that it doesn’t even need to come up, we can’t even begin to discuss the equity of power exchange.

If I may be so bold as to offer a thought on this…In saying all that, i -choose- to give up my desire for ‘equality’ in a traditional sense, to -one- man, and serve Him as a slave.

I would argue that as long as you are a consensual slave, that your slavery is all internal. Externally you ARE equal. You can walk away at any time. What people cannot see while viewing your relation from outside it is, that you internalize and embrace the role of slave because there is personal equity in that exchange. You do have equality, but you embrace the slave role for personal satisfaction, for the equity of that exchange, the value of the uncommon currency of that exchange.

seldom seen way - ramblings of a slave... says:

Yes, that would be a good way of saying that… i live in my own little bubble a lot of the time. i just assume people realize it is consensual when they know us. 🙂

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