Seldom Seen Way

{July 28, 2017}   In a small kink community…

“sloppy” seconds seem to happen a lot – more than i wish to admit. It also means that you know people in ways that others don’t initially.

And watching some of the interactions that are happening in front of you – you want to vomit.

The over “acting” (the facade) while watching said interactions is so fucking unbelievable.

And knowing what a person is like and seeing them make a complete ass out of themselves to “impress” is quite sad – hoping they would have learned something from past mistakes

The part i wish they would learn is to be authentic and instead, they are basically putting on a show to receive any form attention.

i sincerely feel embarrassed for them and more so embarrassed that i had any form of relationship with them in the first place.

Thoughts for the evening.




Xtac says:

Sadly so true.. How can you ever hope to have a sustained relation.. if the person you are interacting with has no idea that the real you hasn’t shown up yet. Frankly it stupid and self defeating.

Xtac says:

No idea of the context behind your thoughts, but isn’t that the biggest problem with dating? Doesn’t everyone put on their best face for a first date? And to some degree, doesn’t almost everyone hide some of what they are for the first year with another person? Not saying its right. Just the norm. I would love it if more people were genuine from day one.

seldom seen way - ramblings of a slave... says:

Sadly this does happen more than I admit – and being in a small community makes it seem more prominent at times. I personally don’t understand the “fakeness”… the whole I will tell you what you want to hear/do so that I won’t be lonely. I was taught to be yourself – if a person doesn’t like that about you – you are obviously not with the right person/people.

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