I am sad that we are not going into the City for the Ball… however it was the best decision.
It is hard to jungle both our work schedules which are complete opposite (He is the day-walker & and I am the night–hawk)…and adding just the time we need to decompress from said work (He=retail, me=high stress office), and then look at our budget… Is this going to be worth going to the City for… especially since we are going in the next week for Valentine’s Play Party and some Sir/Dot time Sunday meal and shopping.
I dislike being all grown-up and responsible when it comes to my wants in the Kink arena. My wants and my needs are on a fine line as it is for it… okay – more like I prefer to have my wants and needs pretty much the same LoL.
Instead tonight, we are going to be a touch Vanilla. My sister-in-law messaged us last night to see if we would be interested in going for a double date to catch up. Part of me was going… damn it… the other part… yeah we should do this – get it out of the way – they are Family.
The thing is we don’t have to pretend we are not M/s with them – they know – we just tone it down and be more discreet about it to be respectful to them. That is what I love about my Life…I don’t have to hide who I am…I have always been open about it. It is all in the way you approach it.
I think people tend to go to the extreme and have a bit of verbal diarrhea.. want to scream it from the roof-tops they are Kinky in some form or another… either to shock or for more of a drama queen way.
The other route is they hide ALL aspects of it… and are paranoid that someone “might” see/hear something and Judge the Hell out of them. They use more energy hiding it from others and themselves than being comfortable in their skin. Again – why does the world… family, friends need to know all the intimate details. In a vanilla setting I don’t want to know what you do in your sexy time… so why do I care to know in a kink sense.
Yes I have been blessed to have people be accepting… doesn’t mean I have not had a soul or ten think otherwise. And remember your definition of Kink may be different from others. Some think with the Lights on is Kinky… and that is all right with me… I won’t judge ya… then again – I don’t have any idea why you feel the need to have to tell me… LoL…
If I just told you I got off with some of the things that Sir does to me.. I would be thought to be insane from many. 😉
Anyway – went on a tangent there.. I apologize. I can’t control my thoughts at times – and just have to get them out of the head while I can.
Now that my fur-babies have had their treat (while I wrote this)… I should finish this first cup of coffee, wash the soaking dishes and clean their plates from the kitchen floor.
It is another 2 hours before I pick up Sir from work, get Him cleaned up .. and off to supper we go… Perhaps we will be able to go shopping – we both have gift certificates to use hehehe.
Laters A/all – I hope you all have an awesome Night!